I have seen so many posts and memes lately glorifying getting through and simply doing the bare minimum. Life, though, isn’t about getting through. I get that the memes are intended to be cute and funny. I know we all have days (or weeks) we struggle, and it is so important that we give ourselves grace.
May I gently encourage you to consider less? If too much is causing you to feel as though you’re doing the bare minimum on all of it, reprioritize you life.
Now, please, please keep in mind that each season of life is very different, and I don’t have a newborn at home. My kids are older now and have accepted a decent amount of responsibility for jobs around the house. My season of life may be (and likely is) very different from yours.
If, however, you find that constantly having people over for dinner is causing you more stress than not, it’s okay to stop. If being overly involved is causing you to not give your all to any of the groups, it’s okay to stop. Our culture needs to stop glorifying busyness.
I think it’s okay that we expect more from ourselves and others than sweatpants and missed meetings. Our culture says that it’s okay to not send thank you notes because we’re so busy. Our culture says it’s okay to connect only online because we’re so busy. I hope that you’ll find encouragement in this post and find the peace that can come with doing fewer things well, whether that is at work or at home.