THANK YOU to everyone who attended yesterday’s tea! We had an absolute blast. Tea time is so important, not because I love tea (in truth, I’m more of a coffee girl), but socializing IS important. We’re all too happy to watch other people live their lives (hello, Kardashians) without getting out and living our own.
We glorify being too busy, which is, in short, very sad. Why do we want a “me” world? As an aside, if you haven’t read this blog from my friend, Kayla Price-Mitchell, I encourage you to check it out! I believe we’re meant to be around others and not live completely solo lives. This is why etiquette is so vital. It’s not just about being comfortable and knowing which fork to use. It’s about making others feel comfortable. It’s a more selfless way of living.
Tea time, though no longer common, was how women of upper class socialized with each other regularly in the 1800s through the mid 1950s. We’re all too happy to get together for a good cause, but it is completely okay (and even good) to get together for no other reason than to be around each other.
In a relaxed setting, we are free to be open with ideas, share our concerns with each other, laugh and grow in friendship. It’s a wonderful thing. If you missed out on Sunday’s tea, I plan to have two more before the end of the year! This is my side job, so it is hard to do a tea correctly without going in the hole financially. However, my goal is to bring etiquette back in style. I can’t do that if there aren’t ample opportunities for unique events, such as teas.
Here are a few of the pictures from the tea party! Enjoy!
I’m SO excited to have another afternoon tea at The Oaks Bed & Breakfast here in Sulphur Springs, Texas. If you’re not familiar with this part of Texas, we’re about 80 minutes northeast of Dallas. There aren’t many tea rooms in this part of the world, and those that exist often are more restaurant style than true tea style.
We’re all too happy to get together for a civic clubs or to raise money for a good cause. So, in an effort to bring back socializing for the sake of being with others, I’m promoting the afternoon tea.
This particular one will be on Sunday, June 25th from 3-5pm.
Here are a few things to know about afternoon tea:
Afternoon teas are informal affairs (meaning you would never wear a tuxedo or evening gown to one). However, there are more formal debutante teas.
At a tea, most people will generally start with the savory items and work their way to the sweeter ones. There is no rule for this, though, for informal afternoon teas, and you may mix and match as you please.
Tea should be an experience. The tea should be poured in front of the recipient so they can have the full experience of the steam and aroma from the tea.
A “high tea” is actually our evening meal. It refers to the high-back chairs. The place setting matches that of a formal dinner, though only the items for a tea are used.
A “low tea” is a social gathering in a person’s living room or sitting area, referring to the low coffee tables.
I’m so excited to offer a summer garden tea on Sunday, June 25th from 3-5 in the afternoon at The Oaks Bed & Breakfast. Due to the generosity of The Oaks, (side note: if you haven’t seen this absolutely gorgeous B&B, this is the perfect chance!) tickets are only $20!! This truly helps everyone who would like to attend to be able to do so. ALSO! I will be giving away a pair of tickets! 🙂 The winner will be announced on Friday, June 23rd. All you need to do it like and share the facebook posts OR comment on THIS post. Do BOTH for additional entries. You can share the facebook post daily for additional entries, as well.
This is also the PERFECT time for me to tell you about my first adult tea set.
The first real tea set I received was passed down to me from my Grandma and Grandpa Wilder.
(Shown in picture are my parents with my aunt, uncle and church friend at my last tea with my heirloom tea set)
Like most good tales, the story behind my Granny and Big Daddy Wilder is almost as real as they are. For many, many years I have loved New Orleans, which is where they lived. The food, the traditions – everything there is so unique to the area that it makes you fall in love with it all while making you feel home sick for a place you never lived. This tea set was a gift from Big Daddy to Granny Wilder before they were married for St. Valentine’s Day. Now that’s a good man. 🙂
One of the stories I heard about Big Daddy was that once a man was making a pass at Granny Wilder (she was very beautiful) while she was riding a street car. The next part of the story varied from Big Daddy telling him off to the man coming up missing with the Mississippi River nearby. Half of the appeal for me as a kid was not knowing where the truth ended and the tale began. And I think about this particular story every time I use these beautiful dishes.
Have kids who want to play tea? Check out these cute tea sets here!