The Importance of Giving

This past Saturday, Garrett and I had the opportunity to attend the inagural Freedom Ball in Hopkins County, Texas.

After months of hard work and preparation, the day was finally here. It exceeded all expectations I ever thought I had. The venue, Cedar Canyon, was magically beautiful. The speaker was both funny and moving. Mr. Clayton McGraw’s rendition of “Ragged Old Flag” by Johnny Cash brought me to tears like it does every time he performs it. I left with a refreshed pride in my country and for the men and women who serve it.

The event’s speaker

The event’s purpose was twofold. First, we have numerous veterans whose names do not appear on the local veterans memorial. The memorial was originally completed debt free to the tune of over $1,000,000. To say that Hopkins County is a giving area is an understatement. The next objective of the fundraising part of the event was to create a perpetual fund that would provide upkeep for the memorial. There is a kiosk at the memorial where people can search for names on the memorial.

 

Aside from the fundraising efforts, the Freedom Ball planning committee, which I was proud to be on, wanted to recognize the efforts of all veterans and honor veterans, which I felt was accomplished.

I feel that giving people lead a fuller life.

It’s important to me that we instill a desire to give and to help others in our children. We were able to to adopt two veterans to place their names on the wall in honor of our kids. I am thankful that my pappy’s (mom’s dad) name is on the wall already. However, many of the veterans whose names are not on the wall were men and women who were killed in action and do not have relatives who would be able to put their name on the wall. 

I was incredibly moved by a generous donation made by a well-known and highly successful businessman. Anyone who knows this family knows of their giving spirit. To acknowledge the impact he and his family made on the community and the efforts of the Freedom Ball, he was recognized at the event.Overall, the event was fun, moving and successful. I am thankful to be a part of a giving community who is able to come together for the greater good. I fully believe that giving people lead fuller lives, and I hope to encourage you today to find something you can contribute to, whether that is by donating money or time. Afterall…“A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in.” -Greek Proverb –

The Texas Dip

Everything really is bigger in Texas, including our curtsies. In Cotillion and Junior Cotillion, I teach the female students a traditional curtsy, which is where the person firmly plants their left foot on the ground while bringing their right foot behind their left foot. the knees are bent, and the person stands straight again. Especially given their age, this is a very appropriate curtsy.

However, at the International Debutante Ball, which is considered the most prestigious ball of its kind, debutantes from Texas perform the Texas Dip, as shown in the picture. As you can see, this requires a great deal of balance and flexibility. It is, however, quite graceful when completed. Debutantes are generally around 18-20 years of age and have completed multiple year of Cotillion courses.

Debutante balls are a fun tradition that I’m happy to bring to Sulphur Springs. Were you a debutante? I’d love to hear your feedback!

Thank you for reading!

Southern Grace Debutante Ball

I am thrilled to announce that the 2018 Southern Grace Debutante Ball will be held in Sulphur Springs, Texas on Saturday, April 21st at the beautiful The Venue at 219, which is located at 219 Main Street.

This event is for young ladies in grades 9th through 12th. The cost is $100 for those who register prior to March 15th. A full meal and live band, along with presentations will take place in the evening of the 21st of April.

Space will be limited due to the nature of the event.

Please email etiquettebyemily@gmail.com to reserve your space today!