I am blessed to be a contributor for our local paper where I answer readers’ questions on a weekly basis. In addition to this, I am finishing up this semseter’s Junior Cotillion and Cotillion courses, so I also receive questions there. I’ve noticed a “trend” (pun intended) of people leaning toward cutesy instead of classy. The difference, though, is very stark, in my opinion.
I remember when I was younger my mom asked me, “Do you want people to notice you or your clothes?” It changed my way of thinking. Now, this post is not implying that all trends are bad. I don’t believe that for one second. This post, though, is a gentle reminder that all trends aren’t for everyone.
If a trend detracts from you, it doesn’t work for you. I have forever wanted to be someone who wore maxi dresses well. I’m 5′ 3″ with hips. They just don’t work for me. There are several other trends, however, that do work well.
My goal in teaching my students etiquette is to encourage class over cute. We all work too hard to have a trend remembered instead of us.